Jan 31, 1863, Humboldt Times:
Marriage ought always be a matter of choice. Every girl ought to be taught that a hasty loveless union stamps upon her great dishonor, and that however dreary and toilsome a single life may be, unhappy married life is tenfold worse–an everlasting temptation, an incurable regret–a torment from which there is no escape but death.
This is quite ironic given all the forced “marriages” endured by local Native American women during the settlement period. I’ve come to realize that many of the women in those situations were incredibly courageous. They endured, had and nutured families. Fortunately, there were even some, like Amelia Lyons (per Susie Van Kirk), who did enjoy loving and caring unions with their white “husbands”.
And for the most part, like it or not, it is the descendants of these unions that make up a majority of our local Native American population today.